FAMILY MOCKED MY "FAILURE" AT NAVY SEAL GRADUATION—THEN THE ADMIRAL SALUTED ME "Try not to embarrass us," my father whispered, adjusting his tie. "Just stand in the back and stay quiet." I stood silent in my cheap department store dress. To my family, I was a Naval Academy dropout working a dead-end insurance job. My brother, the new Navy SEAL, was the golden child. My dad, a retired Captain, was holding court with his buddies near the front. "Yeah, my daughter is in... administration," he laugh