Ryan Moresby-white on Instagram: "It may seem self centred of selfish but the little boy within him is in survival mode Heightened emotions and deep / real conversations are the most confronting thing for him The boy knows no other way but to return to the ways he dealt with emotional distress as a boy He uses the strategies he developed as a boy to protect himself & try get his needs met completely neglecting what she needs to feel safe.. The boy doesn’t know consequence all he cares about it s